Around our area of Ohio and I am sure it is the same in Charlie's part of New York, We have several very old and secluded cemetaries. Many from the civil war and Indian war years. Many are small family plots, usually on a hill toward the back of the property. As a small child, maybe 6 to 8 years old, I remember the Hassan farm just east of our farm had such a cemetary. Small, maybe 50 feet aquare, with a wrought iron fence around it. Was always afraid to go near or into the fenced area. It was unmaintained and forgotten by anyone who may have had family buried there. The county finally passed a bond issue to finance the maintenance of all these sites. With the bond money and many volunteers, some sites were cleaned up to near parklike condition.
Gene